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communicationsA book of practical communication insights

Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield

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Many of our adult behaviors are largely invisible to us because they’re accepted and supported by our culture. It doesn’t occur to us to question our own (or our partner’s) basic assumptions about who we are and how we interact in the world. It’s difficult to step aside from yourself and explore why you think as you do. The more you understand how you (and those with whom you're speaking) take in information, the easier the communication becomes. This book is intended to help you decipher what others are saying and also to help you realize why some of your messages are not being heard the way you intended them.

This book presents many viewpoints on M/s relationships that I have picked up from dozens and dozens of M/s relationship workshops, dozens of books, extensive discussions with hundreds of people who identify with Mastery and slavery, and from personally living in structured M/s relationships since 2003. I have lived as property, as Master, and currently as slave. I am a psychological switch, but you would know that simply from this sentence. 

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