The first step in writing protocols is to determine what is important to you and why you want it done in a certain way. To do this, you have to understand HOW you want to be served. The second step is always to consider that your slave is a person who has needs that are important to them and also that they have certain ways of learning things even as you have certain ways of teaching. Your job as Master is to be able to develop protocols and rituals that support who you both are and incorporate your needs with your slave’s needs to create a magical world in which the two (or more) of you live.
Note: As of February, 2015, Jen has completed the first draft of her book tentatively titled: Master/slave Mastery: How to Write Effective Protocols that Serve You in an Authority-Imbalanced BDSM Relationship (Expected publication date, June 2015)