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(Presenters: Jen and Dr. Bob or Dr. Bob alone) This class can include those new to our culture but presents sophisticated material useful for extremely experienced Tops.)

There is a lot more to a scene than the SM play if you think you’re going to create or experience a transcendence.  As senior Tops realize, the scene starts the moment you begin negotiations, are heavily influenced by the way you conduct the negotiations, begin to take on shape and form as a function of how you handle the pre-scene activities, and are strengthened or weakened by the Top’s ability to select and correctly use tools/toys as a function of being able to “read” the bottom’s response to the intense sensations.  We’ll discuss Topspace and subspace, inducing trance states, and some psychological risks associated with ending a scene.  (Experienced Tops will most easily understand this class, and new Tops will start out learning some of the “secrets” of BDSM Magic.)

(Presenters: Jen and Dr. Bob or Dr. Bob alone)

A “culture” is defined as a group of people who have specialized language, dress, and behavior. That pretty well describes the world of BDSM. As in all cultures, it helps to have a map of the territory to help you move around. This class provides that map. We’ll cover such topics as:
•    BDSM (not Leather) – what’s it really all about
•    Options for getting involved: munches, clubs, demos, parties
•    People – how to approach others without being a “creeper” (or appearing “needy”) and how to say “no, thank you”
•    Not all the “bad guys” are guys – things we don’t think much about, but should
•    How to play and be played safely: knowing your needs, not playing beyond your abilities/skills, negotiations, mentors
•    Party protocols not only to improve scenes, but also to protect scenes
•    Bringing energy and clarity to your BDSM life – being a good Top and bottom
•    Now: what it’s all about, really – using BDSM for connection and transcendence

Our Books Supporting this Presentation  BDSM Mastery: Your guide to play, parties, and scene protocols plus BDSM Mastery: Your guide to creating your own Dominant and submissive Relationship.

(Presenter: Dr. Bob)

There are various versions of this presentation, each of which open with a safety review and with a brief show-and-tell of alternate wrapping materials including duct tape and latex bands. Among other safety issues, I’ll stress the importance both of using food-safe plastic wrap on a body and of preventing skin from touching skin during the wrapping process.  

•    Playing with Saran Wrap
1.    This safety-heavy presentation involves inserting vaginal and/or anal eStim probes before completing the wrapping.  Session goes on to demonstrate the use of canes, floggers, hands/fists, knives and such with the wrapped bottom.
2.    When requesting this version of this demo, please be clear about how “tame” or “extreme” you wish it: Saran-wrap play can range from “ho-hum” to “the most intense scene I’ve ever performed”.
3.    Although I don’t particularly like doing it because the process is like watching paint dry (a slow demo), I can also teach how to use plastic-wrap to prepare the bottom as a food-displaying appetizer or dessert table.  If you wish this demo, I will expect you to have selected and obtained the foods you wish tucked in to the wrapping.  You should also have a shower available for the long-suffering bottom – particularly if chocolate bars or syrups of any kind are to be involved.

Special Requirements
If I’m not traveling with a partner, I’ll need a demo bottom. Please discuss this with me while we are planning this class.

•    Creating a Spiritual Scene with Saran Wrap (60 minutes preferred)
We’ll use Saran Wrap, candles, shamanic music and a volunteer from among the participants to create a quiet and peaceful scene designed to encourage the bottom to drift off into a contemplative and comfortable headspace.  Bottom will be wrapped for about 15 minutes, during which time I will keep in physical contact.  If a second person wishes to be wrapped at the same time, I will use a second person to maintain physical contact during this workshop.

(No nudity required: no restrictions as to demo bottom’s gender.)

(Presenter: Dr. Bob)

Fire play is a high-drama scene in the BDSM world.  It is considered by many to be edge play and requires an individual mentor for successful mastery.  I demonstrate ways to produce either an endorphin release or an adrenaline rush.  I will also share some psychological “mind-fuck” techniques.  I’ll use of flash cotton, devil's fire (hot needles touched to the skin's surface to produce endorphin release); alcohol wanding (and fire glove); cupping and BDSM wax play.  I’ll cover safety procedures extensively.

    Book Supporting this Presentation:  Flames of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fire Play, with David Walker. Las Vegas: Nazca Plains, 2006

DVD/Book Supporting this Presentation:  “Fire Play: A Safety Training Course”, an SM/Tech Production of The Nazca Plains Corp. Las Vegas, 2012 (now at the editing stage). This is a DVD/book combination that is now at the editing stage and scheduled for release in July 2012.

    Special Requirements
1.    If I’m not traveling with a partner, I’ll need a demo bottom.
2.    You may need a fire marshal’s permit if this event is in a public place.

(Presenter: Dr. Bob)

TENS: I’ll use external pads as well as a variety of vaginal and anal inserts to wander from gentle tingles to an uncontrolled scream or two (that most self-respecting bottoms just hate).  I’ll demonstrate a variety of power boxes – from inexpensive (but very good) to the well-known EuroTech 312.  I’ll also demonstrate various types of TENS sensations and compare them with muscle-stimulating settings. I’ll also bring an old “Relax-a-Cizor” unit.  
 
V. Wand: Ever thought of a Violet Wand as offering a cutting experience? How about making the bottom feel that they've been stung by a swarm of hornets? Ever seen a vaginal insert for a Violet Wand, no not the glass kind? A Violet Wand can be a versatile tool, useful both for the sensual and sadistic player.  I'll discuss using ground-fault interrupters for older units and a foot pedal switch for precise "hands-free" power control.  Lots of safety issues, so you may want to take notes.

Special Requirements

If you are thinking of using this demo, please contact me to discuss the demo bottom.

(Presenters: Jen and Dr. Bob or Dr. Bob alone)

Impact play: spanking, paddling, flogging, caning.  Okay, you understand how to use all these activities for punishment and also for scening, but what about combining all of them and more for a sensual scene or a rough scene?  This demo shows how to switch between these tools/toys and to add other sensations to help you develop a skill-set designed to build up your partner’s sm pain/pleasure.  Learn to be creative – used a credit card as a knife?  Used a butcher knife as a paddle?

The variables for impact play are similar regardless of the implement used.  You’re concerned with rhythm, intensity, strike location, amount of the tool/toy you use, and so forth.  You’re also concerned about learning how to read your partner’s reactions to your actions and knowing when to allow your partner to process the pain or when to push through to a new level.  Come to this presentation and learn of many different kinds of impact implements that you can use, including your hands, fists, elbows and head.

Special Requirements

If you are thinking of using this demo, please contact me to discuss the demo bottom.

The demo bottom must enjoy genital flogging, slapping, caning, and punching (bare fisted or with boxing gloves).  Demo may involve cunnilingus, to be negotiated with bottom.

DVD/Book Supporting this Presentation:  “Impact Play 101: Building your Skills”, an SM/Tech Production of The Nazca Plains Corp. Las Vegas, 2012).  This is a DVD/book combination that is now at the editing stage and scheduled for release in July 2012.

 

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